I have a close friend who has been uptight and terribly cautious all his life, never travelling anywhere.
Recently,
he has changed and started flying around the world, moving to a new
house that didn't have a finished kitchen and showing many signs of a
calm and flexible persona.
I asked him how this change came
about. His reply: "I started being deliberately flexible. I walk
a different route to work every day, I drive downtown by a different
route every time I go and when I walk my dogs, I never take the same
route twice."
How's that for an amazing story?
I've observed that not one person in 100 or a 1000 changes once they reach adulthood.